In recent months I have [finally] realized how literally people take me. Combine that with the fact that I simply can't remember everything I tell people and all of a sudden I've set off a chain of events without even realizing it. This is especially embarrassing when the end result of the chain of events are bad or distracting. Then I wonder why we did such a thing, and everyone looks at me and says, "because you told us to." Crap.
Luckily, this happens to other people too. Joel on Software sums it up nicely, as usual, in Amnesia. This sounds way too familiar:
"In short, I’m turning into one of those crazy bosses that approves
things, and then gets upset when you do them. This keeps happening. I
must be driving people crazy.
In my defense, usually what happens is that the thing is
described to me in general, vague terms and it sounds great, and I say,
“sounds great!” and then I see the thing a little bit closer, and it’s
awful, and by this time, I’ve forgotten about the time I said it sounds
great....
The solution, of course, is what I’ve been saying all along. STOP
FRIGGIN’ LISTENING TO ME. I don’t know what I’m talking about. If you
work for me, you’re welcome to get my advice, but you have to make your
own decision because chances are you’ve thought MUCH MORE about the
issue than I have and in fact we probably hired you because you’re
smarter than I am."
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